Why Did We Put Missing Kids on Milk Cartons?

You’d think a milk carton had one job. Hold the milk, tell you whether it’s two percent or three percent, maybe put a picture of a cow on the side and call it a day. Then somebody decided the side of that carton could help find a missing kid. Before long, millions of Americans were sitting down to breakfast with a photograph of a child staring back at them from the refrigerator. It was a pretty strange thing to see beside your Corn Flakes, but at the time it made sense.

The idea really took off in the 1980s, although it started earlier. Six-year-old Etan Patz disappeared in New York City in 1979, and his disappearance became one of the cases that helped bring national attention to missing children. In September 1984, an Iowa dairy began putting photographs of missing boys Johnny Gosch and Eugene Martin on its milk cartons. Within months, the idea had spread, and the National Child Safety Council coordinated a national program involving more than 700 dairies.

But here’s the thing that always gets me. Why did it seem like there were so many missing kids? If you were growing up in the 1980s, you could sit down with your cereal and see another missing child’s face on the carton. It could make you think children were disappearing left and right, but the reality was more complicated. Most missing-child cases were not stranger abductions. NCMEC says fewer than one percent of cases reported to the organization are classified as nonfamily abductions, with many other cases involving runaways or family situations.

And then there’s the really strange question. Did any of these kids ever see themselves on the milk carton? Believe it or not, yes. NCMEC documents a case involving a seven-year-old child in a family-abduction case who recognized her own face on a milk carton and was eventually reunited with her father. Think about that for a second. You’re eating breakfast, you look down at the carton and realize the missing kid everyone is looking for is you. That’s one of those things that sounds like a movie until you realize it actually happened.

Of course, missing children weren’t the only thing appearing on milk cartons. Depending on the year, breakfast could come with “Just Say No” anti-drug messages, energy-crisis reminders, recycling warnings, coupons and local notices. You might even find a lost cow, which is probably the most farm-country version of a missing-person alert imaginable. And if none of that interested you, there was always a Garfield comic you’d already read fourteen times because apparently the milk carton was also expected to provide entertainment.

By the early 1990s, even The Simpsons was having fun with the whole thing. In the 1993 episode “Rosebud,” Milhouse’s face appears on a milk carton as a missing child. Then Smithers comes along and pastes a picture of Mr. Burns’ beloved teddy bear, Bobo, right over Milhouse’s face. The joke gets even better when you remember that Rosebud is about Burns desperately trying to find the lost toy from his childhood. So even the milk carton ends up being about somebody looking for something they lost. Poor Milhouse can’t even catch a break on the refrigerator.

Canada eventually gave the idea a digital makeover. In 2012, the Missing Children Society of Canada launched what became known as Milk Carton 2.0, using social media and mobile technology to get information about missing children in front of people quickly. Same basic idea, different technology. The milk carton had finally given way to the phone in your hand.

And then we have the other great Canadian milk story. While Americans were looking at missing kids on their cartons, people in Quebec and Ontario were buying milk in bags. Three little plastic pouches came in a larger package, one went into a pitcher, and you snipped the corner and poured yourself a glass. If you grew up with it, perfectly normal. If you didn’t, it looked like somebody had forgotten to finish packaging the milk.

Maybe that’s what makes the whole thing so strange. You sat down with your cereal, poured yourself a glass of milk and there it was: a missing kid staring back at you from the carton. What a crappy way to start breakfast. You hadn’t even finished your Corn Flakes and the milk was already reminding you that the world wasn’t all sunshine and cartoons. Maybe this is where you started to lose a little of your innocence.

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• Saturday Morning Cartoons

Further Reading

• National Center for Missing & Exploited Children: The Milk Carton Kids
• RCMP publication on Milk Carton 2.0
• The Simpsons Wiki: Rosebud references

Tony M.

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